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Post by AngelOfSolitude on Mar 4, 2006 21:39:28 GMT -5
People tell me im heartless,But i really dont think that im mean..I mean,I was in love with this guy and he of ocurse broke my heart so i one day decided forget him..If he doesnt love me then i should be dead to him and visa verca..and now im being called a cold heartless...then ill leave the other word out lol..But..I really dont think im that bad because of that...do you?
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Post by FRODOFAN on Mar 5, 2006 11:06:58 GMT -5
I haev to say no because I have done similiar things (and been called many similiar things). At some point, things need to be forgotten and/or left behind and (let me use my favorite lotr quote here) "How do you pick up the threads of an old life? How do you go on when in your heart you begin to understand. There is no going back. There are some things that time can not mend, some hurts that go to deep, that have taken hold."
Some people may not understand all that you've gone through and therfore they can't judge. Nobody can truly understand except for you.
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Post by AngelOfSolitude on Mar 6, 2006 14:09:14 GMT -5
Yeah,Its just i find myself still loving him..and i hate it..But he chose someone over me..I made hikm choose and he chose her..then decided to pull the "lets be friends." crap on me >.> oooh i wanted to commit murder.
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Post by FRODOFAN on Mar 6, 2006 14:56:25 GMT -5
Hm. I've been in a somewhat similiar situation. I still like him and I don't think I'll ever hate him, but I told myself, "How could I love him when he loves HER?" And actually, it's all turned out for the better I guess. But, "let's be friends?" That's... can't think of a proper word. All I got was the cold shoulder. How can you be friends after that? Maybe time will make it better though and you possible could have a friendship? Just as long as you don't really comit murder, I think you'll be fine.  |
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Post by AngelOfSolitude on Mar 6, 2006 17:31:29 GMT -5
I mean right AFTER he chose her we said "We can still be friends right.." oooooh i was sharpening my knife at that point >.(\ but i guess ill get someone better or if i get anyone at all..But if i dont i guess thats okay to,he spread around i treated him horrible i am a kinda cold person by nature but if i love someone.I will lay down my life for them.
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Post by FRODOFAN on Mar 6, 2006 19:46:15 GMT -5
You sound more and more like me.  But I'm sure you will find somebody else. Might take a while, but HEY if it ends up being true love... it will have been worth the wait, no? |
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Post by AngelOfSolitude on Mar 8, 2006 1:00:00 GMT -5
Yeah hopefully,but if i dont i gues thats okay because..i unno i just guess it is lol..I would really just like to kill him though.
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Post by Mírwen Lindorië on Mar 8, 2006 15:30:57 GMT -5
If you really did like him, you'd probably end up on the wrong side of a love triangle, like Eponine, from Les Miserables, and she ended up dying...
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Post by AngelOfSolitude on Mar 8, 2006 15:40:31 GMT -5
I almost did,but i got out before the worst could happen..Come to think of it..Now i really hate him lol.
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Post by FRODOFAN on Mar 8, 2006 17:27:18 GMT -5
Well then, I guess it's good you found this out sooner than later. You can hate him, just don't kill him. lol. |
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Post by AngelOfSolitude on Mar 8, 2006 18:08:27 GMT -5
Aw....I really wanted to lol...*shakes fist O.o*
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Post by estel on Apr 3, 2006 18:46:34 GMT -5
Some words of comfort "All things work together for good." I know it's hard to wait but we must be patient. I'm sure we all have had broken dreams at one point. That's because it wasn't meant to be.
I was thinking the other day and some how I started thinking about pain and life. I came up with this; Life is never without pain, because there is no perfect person in this world and pain is everywhere. It is inevitable. And the phrase that everyone begins to hate "what dosen't kill you only makes you stronger."
Okay I realize these words aren't very uplifting. Sorry, Things will get better tis I promise you.
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Post by 3b1l on Jun 12, 2006 21:25:28 GMT -5
I really dont think your cold heated at al! He broke your heart in the first place! and unless he had a good reason i say he was the one being cold hearted!! xP I think its better to forget about someone who has broken your heart than to cry about it for weeks.. thats almost pathetic and a waste of time.But even if someone would cry over it... hopefully their true friends would of course comfort them  |
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Post by estel on Jun 21, 2006 21:33:28 GMT -5
I agree with 3bl1 about your friends being a comfort. just look you got a page of people trying to comfort you.
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Post by Manwe on Jul 4, 2006 22:53:55 GMT -5
I think you have to go with what is in your heart. I once fell in love with a woman that was in love with another man. I knew that if I was persistent, I could make her love me and take her away from the other, and I did, I made her fall for me. The problem was that she still loved the other guy, and her love for me was tearing her heart in two. So, here I was in love with her, and I had to decide what the right path was for us. In the end I couldn't stand to see someone I loved torn apart, so I said goodbye and walked away. That was the worst broken heart I have ever had, but it was the right decision, at least for me. I hope it was for her.
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But I'm sure you will find somebody else. Might take a while, but HEY if it ends up being true love... it will have been worth the wait, no?
